If you've been interacting with a lot of attractive women, you probably realize that sometimes they do things that just seems a bit... off. For example, they'll start acting or making a request that's just a bit socially unacceptable. She might start asking you to do things that, with the length of time you've known her, seems a bit rude or forward. Or she may start acting bratty and making demands that are just outrageous.
When a woman is doing this, she is testing you! If you're not paying attention they can easily go unnoticed and you would have failed the test.
So why do women test men?
First off, I want to point something out. It's actually great news that a woman is testing you. It means you have her interest on some level and she's trying to qualify you. With that out of the way, what is the real reason why women test men? Why would a woman deliberately do or say something that if examined carefully, would be considered socially unacceptable? What does she gain from acting this way?
In a nutshell, she's trying to see if you're "man enough" for her... and she's doing it unconsciously. Meaning it's hardwired into her from birth.
The reality is, attractive women have their pick of men and these types of women prefer men who are masculine and confident. Since these women are constantly being pursued by men, they need a way to quickly weed out the "good" ones from the "bad" ones. They do this by using tests.
If a man doesn't have his act together, as soon as a woman throws a test at him he'll buckle and either start apologizing or start complying... failing the test completely. On the other hand, if a man DOES have his act together and possesses massive self confidence and masculinity... As soon as a woman throws a test at him, he'll immediately realize how ridiculous it is and instantly shoot an equally ridiculous reply back or turns the test around and starts making fun of the woman. Passing the test with flying colors.
So what is one thing that you can do that will ensure you pass every single test a woman throws at you?
The most important thing you can do is to simply view yourself as having equal or higher social status than her. With this mindset, whenever a woman throws a test at you, you'll notice she's attempting to take a shot at your social status and you can respond accordingly.
Reference: Frank_Robins
When a woman is doing this, she is testing you! If you're not paying attention they can easily go unnoticed and you would have failed the test.
So why do women test men?
First off, I want to point something out. It's actually great news that a woman is testing you. It means you have her interest on some level and she's trying to qualify you. With that out of the way, what is the real reason why women test men? Why would a woman deliberately do or say something that if examined carefully, would be considered socially unacceptable? What does she gain from acting this way?
In a nutshell, she's trying to see if you're "man enough" for her... and she's doing it unconsciously. Meaning it's hardwired into her from birth.
The reality is, attractive women have their pick of men and these types of women prefer men who are masculine and confident. Since these women are constantly being pursued by men, they need a way to quickly weed out the "good" ones from the "bad" ones. They do this by using tests.
If a man doesn't have his act together, as soon as a woman throws a test at him he'll buckle and either start apologizing or start complying... failing the test completely. On the other hand, if a man DOES have his act together and possesses massive self confidence and masculinity... As soon as a woman throws a test at him, he'll immediately realize how ridiculous it is and instantly shoot an equally ridiculous reply back or turns the test around and starts making fun of the woman. Passing the test with flying colors.
So what is one thing that you can do that will ensure you pass every single test a woman throws at you?
The most important thing you can do is to simply view yourself as having equal or higher social status than her. With this mindset, whenever a woman throws a test at you, you'll notice she's attempting to take a shot at your social status and you can respond accordingly.
Reference: Frank_Robins
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