June 30, 2010

Tips to Find Your True Love

Do you know what true love is? Have you found your true love? The following are the tips to get your true love.

There is no single definition of true love. It is not easy to find. You need ideal thinking and condition to find it.

1. You do not need to chase it
Love does not come to those who look for it. If you have just broken up with your lover, focus your self on your own life. You do not need to rush to find a new lover. You have to enjoy your own life first.

2. Give time for your self
Find your positive aura. If you feel satisfy with yourself, your positive aura will automatically spread out. When you have come to this, everyone around you will see it. It will be your attractiveness.

3. Open up your heart for someone new
If you are ready for a new relationship, you can now determine what kind of person you want to be your lover. You can choose someone new not only based on her/his physical appearance, but also the character and the mental.

4. Get along and hang out
It will give you big chance to meet new people. One of them may possible to attract your attention and become your true love.

5. Take the risk
When you feel that you have met someone who can fit your criteria of true love, do not be hesitate to step up. Start to get along and have a new relationship. That chance will not come twice.

6. Love Your Own Self
The most important thing of all is that you have to love yourself first. Live happily with your hope. Convince yourself that everyone is made in couples. But, you have to find that right person in the right time.



Reference: Jacob_G_Sebastian

June 24, 2010

How to Get a Girlfriend Back When You Have Let Yourself Go


Ruth and Simon had been going out for a little over 3 years. Neither of them wanted to get married, but they decided that they would cut the cost of having two homes and move in together. Simon had the bigger place, so they decided to make their home at Simon's place.
Now Ruth had been to Simon's many times over the years, but it was only when she actually made the decision to move into Simon's place that she found she just couldn't. She actually found that the problem was both Simon's apartment, and Simon himself.
Simon was what some men like to call a "real man". Unfortunately, Simon had taken this to extremes. He had stopped shaving and his hair was a mess. Clothes were strewn all over the apartment, which hadn't been cleaned for some considerable time.
The bathroom was dirty and the kitchen a mess of unwashed plates and a cooker that was covered in old cooked food.
Ruth had often quietly suggested to Simon that he might clean himself up a little, but Simon never took her seriously and ignored the advice.
The moral of this article is that so often, guys just don't notice what they have become. It's like getting older, because the process of physical change is so slow, we don't notice any changes in our appearance until we see an old picture of ourselves from 15 years before.
It's the same at home. We guys just don't see dirt and dust, together with general untidiness as we get so used to it.
So here are some simple tips if you're in Simon's position.


1. Personal Hygiene.
Shower and shave every day. Keep your hair clean and invest in some male toiletries. Become a "new man" if you like with moisturisers the works!


2. Change Your Clothes.
I don't just mean wear clean clothes - update your wardrobe if you need to. Throw away some of those awful items you've held onto for so long!


3. Hire a Cleaner.
If you are too busy to tidy up and vacuum the place, hire someone on a weekly or bi weekly basis to come in and clean the place for you.


4. Make an Effort.
When you go to bed, instead of leaving that half eaten pizza on the floor by you chair, pick it up and dispose of it. Just take a few small steps to keep the place tidy yourself.
As it happens, that's exactly what Simon did, and after a little work and effort, won his old girlfriend back. How do I know? I was Simon!



Reference:James_Rutherford

These Tips Will Make Him Notice You Yet Again

When a man starts tuning out, it means he has something going on in his mind that he thinks is more interesting than what you are saying or doing. So, how do you get his attention back, the way he used to give it to you? Here are some tips which will help you a lot...
Try hard not to nag

The first thing that makes a man tune out is a voice - or a tone of voice - that even remotely sounds like nagging. You may not think it's nagging, but in his world it might be the worst form of nagging. If you keep on repeating the same thing, constantly telling him (as opposed to reminding or discussing) about certain things, he will certainly get annoyed.

There's no excuse for shouting
The softer your voice, the more eagerly he will listen. Shouting at him makes him feel like you don't respect him, but if you speak with him (as opposed to speaking TO him) in a gentle, pleasant manner - no matter how upset you are - he is more likely to pay attention.

Don't force him to listen
Throwing tantrums, turning off the TV, stomping your feet, or any attempt to get his attention in this manner will probably amuse him at first, but will annoy him in the long run. He will probably pretend to listen, just to make you stop, but he will eventually try to get away from all this.

Don't be desperate neither act like you are
Sulking, being depressed, clinging, or acting like the whole world has collapsed on you will not help you in getting the attention that you crave for. In fact, this attitude will probably make him walk away.

Instead, enjoy life
Be a happy person. Draw your happiness from within yourself. Do things that you enjoy, be productive, be independent. Go out with your friends, pamper yourself a bit. Do things that would build your self-confidence. Confidence is a magnet that draws attention.

Pull back a little
Men are hunters by nature and they do get lazy in a relationship sometimes, especially if they're confident that their "prize catch" has already been caught. If you pull back a little - like being slightly out of reach without really going away - you will switch on his hunting mode & he will be more eager to talk to you.

BE interesting so he won't get bored
The only way to actually get his attention is for you to be interesting enough for him. Find the woman that you were before, the one that he fell in love with, and be that woman all over again.

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Reference: Krista_Hiles