July 6, 2010

The Number 1 Mistake You Make When Setting a Relationship Goal and How to Fix It


Have you set yourself a goal of being in a sexually fulfilling relationship?


Maybe you've got it. Maybe you haven't yet. Either way. I've just seen this play out again by an expert. I can't believe it. To me it seems so simple. Yet, I've just received another email telling me of another divorce.


So many people set a relationship goal as one of their goals. Normally something like:


To be in a relationship.

To have a relationship.


To get married etc.

Or something alone those lines. This is great and you can easily get it if you want to.


Then everybody seems to hit problem or forget to take their own advice.


What is it?
Once you've set a goal and got it, what should you do?


The big secret is:


Set another relationship goal.


I know it sounds incredible simple, but so few people do.


So you're in a relationship or have gotten married. Now what? Your relationship goals should NOT end now you've achieved your end result. Pick another end result or three.


It seems people get married and think job done. I'll now be happy for the rest of my life. Maybe you'll be one of the lucky ones. The rest of us.


Keep setting relationship goals!


They can be monthly, yearly 3 yearly, 5 yearly or much further off. It doesn't actually matter as long as the goal excites you.


It is estimated that 40% of all marriages since 2008 have ended in divorce. Do you want to join that list?


Maybe your goal is to secretly get back with an old love?

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Reference:Andrew_Wilkie

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