How to Get a Girlfriend Back When You Have Let Yourself Go

Ruth and Simon had been going out for a little over 3 years. Neither of them wanted to get married, but they decided that they would cut the cost of having two homes and move in together. Simon had the bigger place, so they decided to make their home at Simon's place.
Now Ruth had been to Simon's many times over the years, but it was only when she actually made the decision to move into Simon's place that she found she just couldn't. She actually found that the problem was both Simon's apartment, and Simon himself.
Simon was what some men like to call a "real man". Unfortunately, Simon had taken this to extremes. He had stopped shaving and his hair was a mess. Clothes were strewn all over the apartment, which hadn't been cleaned for some considerable time.
The bathroom was dirty and the kitchen a mess of unwashed plates and a cooker that was covered in old cooked food.
Ruth had often quietly suggested to Simon that he might clean himself up a little, but Simon never took her seriously and ignored the advice.
The moral of this article is that so often, guys just don't notice what they have become. It's like getting older, because the process of physical change is so slow, we don't notice any changes in our appearance until we see an old picture of ourselves from 15 years before.
It's the same at home. We guys just don't see dirt and dust, together with general untidiness as we get so used to it.
So here are some simple tips if you're in Simon's position.

1. Personal Hygiene.
Shower and shave every day. Keep your hair clean and invest in some male toiletries. Become a "new man" if you like with moisturisers the works!

2. Change Your Clothes.
I don't just mean wear clean clothes - update your wardrobe if you need to. Throw away some of those awful items you've held onto for so long!

3. Hire a Cleaner.
If you are too busy to tidy up and vacuum the place, hire someone on a weekly or bi weekly basis to come in and clean the place for you.

4. Make an Effort.
When you go to bed, instead of leaving that half eaten pizza on the floor by you chair, pick it up and dispose of it. Just take a few small steps to keep the place tidy yourself.
As it happens, that's exactly what Simon did, and after a little work and effort, won his old girlfriend back. How do I know? I was Simon!

Reference:James_Rutherford